Obviously the title is a joke. It has long been known that beauty is on the inside. So why does everything in the real world seem to suggest otherwise? Why are advertising and the arts, as almost everything, hyper-sexualized? Why do people with a weak presence have the most difficulties in so many professional sectors? Also, why the cult of the body and youth? The answer is simple: because it sells.
But, as Paris Hilton would say, “let’s start and go.”
What does inner beauty mean?
We understand inner beauty as the set of invisible qualities of a person. Intelligence, sympathy, kindness, empathy … those kinds of things are inner beauty concepts.
Exterior beauty is important, of course it is. We need to be physically attracted first, so we can see if someone is compatible later, right?
Well that’s not true either. There are millions of couples who have gotten together for reasons that weren’t purely physical appearance that work wonders.
It is something that can perfectly happen to you on a blind date.
Ideally, of course, your partner will have everything for you: they will exude beauty outside and inside.
But that is not always easy.
This is an example of an ugly woman who, apparently, was beautiful and very hot
The text we show below is real, it appeared on a known advertisement page. So real that the banker’s response went viral a few years ago. Let’s see both.
The girl’s add:
What am I doing wrong?
Okay, I’m tired of beating around the bush. I’m a beautiful (spectacularly beautiful) 25 year old girl. I’m articulate and classy. Besides, I’m not from New York. I’m looking to get married to a guy who makes at least half a million a year. I know how that sounds, but keep in mind that a million a year is middle class in New York City, so I don’t think I’m overreaching at all.
Are there any guys who make 500K or more on this board? Any wives? Could you send me some tips? I dated a businessman who makes an average around 200 – 250. But that’s where I seem to hit a roadblock. 250,000 won’t get me to central park west. I know a woman in my yoga class who was married to an investment banker and lives in Tribeca, and she’s not as pretty as I am, nor is she a great genius. So what is she doing right? How do I get to her level?
Banker’s response:
I read your posting with great interest and have thought meaningfully about your dilemma. I offer the following analysis of your predicament.
Firstly, I’m not wasting your time, I qualify as a guy who fits your bill; that is I make more than $500K per year. That said, here’s how I see it.
Your offer, from the perspective of a guy like me, is plain and simple a crappy business deal. Here’s why. Cutting through all the B.S., what you suggest is a simple trade: you bring your looks to the party and I bring my money. Fine, simple. But here’s the rub, your looks will fade and my money will likely continue into perpetuity … in fact, it is very likely that my income increases but it is an absolute certainty that you won’t be getting any more beautiful!
So, in economic terms you are a depreciating asset and I am an earning asset. Not only are you a depreciating asset, your depreciation accelerates! Let me explain, you’re 25 now and will likely stay pretty hot for the next 5 years, but less so each year. Then the fade begins in earnest. By 35 stick a fork in you!
So in Wall Street terms, we would call you a trading position, not a buy and hold… hence the rub… marriage. It doesn’t make good business sense to “buy you” (which is what you’re asking) so I’d rather lease. In case you think I’m being cruel, I would say the following. If my money were to go away, so would you, so when your beauty fades I need an out. It’s as simple as that. So a deal that makes sense is dating, not marriage.
Separately, I was taught early in my career about efficient markets. So, I wonder why a girl as “articulate, classy and spectacularly beautiful” as you has been unable to find your sugar daddy. I find it hard to believe that if you are as gorgeous as you say you are that the $500K hasn’t found you, if not only for a tryout.
By the way, you could always find a way to make your own money and then we wouldn’t need to have this difficult conversation.
With all that said, I must say you’re going about it the right way. Classic “pump and dump.”
I hope this is helpful, and if you want to enter into some sort of lease, let me know.
I don’t know about you, but I feel like having some drinks with the banker, and even paying for a couple of them.
Physique is not everything
That beauty on the inside is something that the girl you’ve just read about has realized after reading that answer, what about you?
It’s one thing to want to be in shape and be more attractive -something totally normal and desirable- and another to be obsessed with the outside, or to look only at people’s appearance.
If that happens to you, you have a problem, a much more serious problem than if you, for example, suffer from shyness with women. That can be fixed.
The inability to see beyond a person’s packaging is very difficult to correct.
How to be attractive to women?
I’ll tell you a secret: being handsome makes things easier. But being attractive and being handsome are not the same thing.
Do you want to become more attractive? Read ahead.
- Be confident in yourself.
- It is essential to be self-dependent. Having to rely on someone (mom and dad, for example) to live takes away a lot of screwing points off.
- Have a passion, something that makes you not need anyone to be happy while you spend time living your passion. Having an inner life makes you more attractive.
- Take care of yourself. Get eight hours of sleep a day, exercise, eat healthy, avoid alcohol, and run away from drugs as if they were an indestructible strain of Covid-19.
- If all of the above fail, adopt a troubled puppy.
No one said it would be easy, right? The point is that if you are still wondering why you’re still single , you may not have taken the previous points into account.
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