7 Secrets To Improve Dating Odds

Having an attractive profile is paramount if you want to flirt successfully through Friends with benefits 

Through routine scanning, we’ve found that using a good format of presentation increases a far better chance of dating within the first 3 days of registering.

Here are 7 historically proven tactics.  

1. Keep Things Fun

Even though fun may seem obvious, it’s worth emphasizing that the word “fun” appeared in 70% of 120,000 profiles.

It is a clear fact that making a person laugh is the first step that opens the door to flirting.

2. Talk About Love

Out of 120,000 profiles studied, those who wrote love quotes/phrases in their profile description and kept love as their focal point powered up their engagement by 16%. 

Think about it: almost everyone wants to find love, so talking from the heart especially on a dating site is the key!

3. Mention Your Positive Attributes (but don’t overdo it) 

A study from a well-known dating site found that it’s a good idea to beef yourself up with positive words, but without overdoing it. 

For women using words like sweet, optimistic and thoughtful is ideal, while words like passionate, spontaneous and sensitive worked best for men.

These terms are non-toxic and therefore have a lower bounce rate. 

The lesson here is to never use any negative connotations ever. 

Example: If a woman writes “I’m looking for a serious man” 

The word “serious” implies that she’s been dating losers.  

We all have weak points, and sharing weaknesses is important however, save it for later. 

Good qualities attract attention and keep’s things juicy. 

4. Share Hobbies

Sharing hobbies helps to establish intimacy, and so sharing things in common will help to buddy up. 

Example: loving health and fitness together, will help springboard interesting topics of conversations and dating ideas.  

Also, sharing things in common paints a clearer picture of the type of person you are. 

However, take note that not any hobby works.

According to our study, hobbies such as surfing, hiking, and live music entice women better than chess or reading.  

For women, hobbies such as yoga, dancing, theater or animals works.

5. Use Gender Strength

Some of the gender stereotypes work well when flirting online.

In Friends with benefits we have studied this thoroughly:

Men are first physical and then emotional while women are first emotional and then physical.

So, make sure to tap into her gender qualities like gentleness, empathy, humility, and sensitivity.  

6. Be Safe And Humble

In a study by the Pew Research Center, most people were attracted to those whose profiles were positive but not over-optimistic.

Being generally positive is great however pushing it into over-optimism robs a certain vulnerability that is appealing to women. 

So play innocent but smart!   

7. Opposites Don’t Attract

The mindset of many is that opposites attract, but many times that mindset invites conflict. 

The reason is that the “opposites attract” theory comes from the 1950s and that doesn’t fly anymore.  

Men and women play off of a different game these days, so your best bet is to be authentic.   

If you desire a long-lasting relationship, then sharing your true points of view about life is promising.  

Alternately, If you desire a night of sex and nothing more, then play the dating game and try to score.  

To score: the scientists at Barts, the London School of Medicine and the University of North Texas all suggest reflecting similar things in common to connect.

This is a trick, as to attract a woman who likes to crochet, the odds hooking up with her will be higher if you also like to crochet. 

(and you will learn fast)

Now that you know the 7 secrets to improve your dating odds, here is one more secret to ponder over:

“Someone is looking for a mate just like you, right now!”